Friday 15 November 2013

Absent for a good reason

First let me say a massive-

for being absent for soo long.  As you may have guessed I've met a good man and he is taking up most of my spare time. Due to previous "speaking too soon" moments, I decided not to write about anything for a while, just so  I was sure I wouldn't end up with egg on my face again.

But this time it looks like I may have struck a good one. After years of Fishing, I have found a good one I don't want to put back into the pond. We have spent the last 6 months getting to know one another and each others families etc. He has even put up with some horrendous behaviour from my once adorable teenage daughter who has become the teenager from hell in recent months. In the words of my mother -" shes only giving you the same abuse you gave me ". I have to disagree on this. I may have been a bit of a cow, but never to this level! One day I will write it all down and hopefully she will look back and think- "Oh my poor mum, what did I put her through."

I promise I will write some more about previous exploits (as I know it doesn't offend my man, he finds it all interesting and has the opinion that the past is the past.) I have discovered I have matured and I am no longer the worrying woman as I don't get jealous of him meeting up for coffee with other female friends. He alike doesn't mind me chatting to my male mates. We both trust each other and know we would be stupid to do anything to jeopardize what we have found with each other. He can also be thanked for calming me down and helping me realise that age old saying "Its not life threatening so don't panic"

I've made some new female friends too, from the most bizarre of situations. One was married to one of my previous dates (see ghosts from the past blog) and the other is my new boyfriends ex. I think it just goes to show sister hood is stronger than any male believes.  

Oh and that most women can see straight through a lying male !